Attitudes about our own body and bodies in general are shaped by our communities, families, cultures, media, and our own perceptions. Body Policing: ASC Queer Theory. A gender expression that fits societal definitions of masculinity. Usually used by queer women and trans people, particularly by lesbians. The prefix cis- means "on this side of" or "not across. Coming Out: It has also been broadened to include other pieces of potentially stigmatized personal information. Terms also used that correlate with this action are: Cross Dresser CD: A word to describe a person who dresses, at least partially, as a member of a gender other than their assigned sex; carries no implications of sexual orientation.
A learned set of values, beliefs, customs, norms, and perceptions shared by a group of people that provide a general design for living and a pattern for interpreting life. Cultural Humility: An approach to engagement across differences that acknowledges systems of oppression and embodies the following key practices: Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexuals feel sexual attraction rarely compared to the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity.
Demisexuals are considered to be on the asexual spectrum, meaning they are closely aligned with asexuality. Inequitable actions carried out by members of a dominant group or its representatives against members of a marginalized or minoritized group.
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Drag King: A person often a woman who appears as a man. Generally in reference to an act or performance. This has no implications regarding gender identity. Drag Queen: A person often a man who appears as a woman.
A social construct which divides people into smaller social groups based on characteristics such as shared sense of group membership, values, behavioral patterns, language, political and economic interest, history and ancestral geographical base. A sexual and affectional orientation toward people of the same gender. A social construct used to classify a person as a man, woman, or some other identity.
Fundamentally different from the sex one is assigned at birth. Gender Expansive: Gender Expression: Gender Fluid: A person whose gender identification and presentation shifts, whether within or outside of societal, gender-based expectations. Being fluid in motion between two or more genders. Gender Identity: Gender Outlaw: A person who refuses to be defined by conventional definitions of male and female.
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Gender Non conforming GNC: Gender Queer: Gender Variant: A person who varies from the expected characteristics of the assigned gender. A set of lifestyle norms, practices, and institutions that promote binary alignment of biological sex, gender identity, and gender roles; assume heterosexuality as a fundamental and natural norm; and privilege monogamous, committed relationships and reproductive sex above all other sexual practices.
The assumption that all people are or should be heterosexual. Heterosexism excludes the needs, concerns, and life experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual and queer people while it gives advantages to heterosexual people. It is often a subtle form of oppression, which reinforces realities of silence and erasure. A sexual orientation in which a person feels physically and emotionally attracted to people of a gender other than their own. An outdated term to describe a sexual orientation in which a person feels physically and emotionally attracted to people of the same gender.
Historically, it was a term used to pathologize gay and lesbian people. Internalized oppression: One form of internalized oppression is the acceptance of the myths and stereotypes applied to the oppressed group. Intersectionality looks at the relationships between multiple marginalized identities and allows us to analyze social problems more fully, shape more effective interventions, and promote more inclusive advocacy amongst communities. Adjective used to describe the experience of naturally that is, without any medical intervention developing primary or secondary sex characteristics that do not fit neatly into society's definitions of male or female.
Intersex is an umbrella term and there are around 20 variations of intersex that are included in this umbrella term. Intersex people are relatively common, although society's denial of their existence has allowed very little room for intersex issues to be discussed publicly. Hermaphrodite is an outdated and inaccurate term that has been used to describe intersex people in the past. Kinky, Kinkiness Most commonly referred to as unconventional sexual practices, from which people derive varying forms of pleasure and consensually play-out various forms of desire, fantasies and scenes.
Leather community: A community, which encompasses those who are into leather, sado-masochism, bondage and domination, uniform, cowboys, rubber, and other fetishes.
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Although the leather community is often associated with the queer community, it is not a "gay-only" community. A woman whose primary sexual and affectional orientation is toward people of the same gender. Abbreviation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender. An umbrella term that is often used to refer to the community as a whole. The practice of confronting heterosexism, sexism, genderism, allosexism, and monosexism in oneself and others out of self-interest and a concern for the well being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex and asexual people.
Masculine of Center: Masculine of center MOC is a term, coined by B.
Can occur when using pronouns, gendered language i. The belief in and systematic privileging of monosexuality as superior, and the systematic oppression of non-monosexuality. People who have romantic, sexual, or affectional desire for one gender only. Heterosexuality and homosexuality are the most well-known forms of monosexuality.
Neurodiversity is a natural and valuable form of human diversity. It refers to the infinite variation of human brains, minds and neurocognitive functioning within our species. Diversity is a trait possessed by a group, not an individual. The terms neurodivergent and neurodivergence were coined by Kassiane Asasumasu, a multiply neurodivergent neurodiversity activist. A non-binary gender identity that falls under the genderqueer or transgender umbrellas.
There is no one definition of Neutrois , since each person that self-identifies as such experiences their gender differently. The most common ones are: A gender identity and experience that embraces a full universe of expressions and ways of being that resonate for an individual. For some people who identify as non-binary there may be overlap with other concepts and identities like gender expansive and gender non-conforming. Possessing all genders. The term is used specifically to refute the concept of only two genders. Individual Level: Institutional Level: Institutions such as family, government, industry, education, and religion are shapers of, as well as shaped by, the other two levels.
The application of institutional policies and procedures in an oppressive society run by individuals or groups who advocate or collude with social oppression produces oppressive consequences. Some, but not all, types of attraction or orientation include: Pansexual, Omnisexual: Terms used to describe people who have romantic, sexual or affectional desire for people of all genders and sexes. Historically this term has been used to inaccurately refer to systems oppression i.
Sometimes used as an umbrella term for all forms of ethical, consensual, and loving non-monogamy.
Polygender, Pangender: Exhibiting characteristics of multiple genders, deliberately refuting the concept of only two genders. And when I first began to have these self-revelations, I also knew that I needed space to explore all of these complications. Queer has many different facets. Some use it to encompass all non-heterosexual, non-cisgender identities. Certainly a wide variety of non-heterosexual, non-cisgender folks are queer.
But though queer might cover some part of that spectrum, it is not limited to it. I am not gay nor lesbian nor bisexual nor transgender. I am not anything other than just queer. Like plenty of the names marginalized people call themselves, queer has a fraught history of reclamation, many controversial political implications, and a universalizing aspect that is too contradictory for some.
Yet, even here at Everyday Feminism, we sometimes use gay and queer interchangeably. Not to set the two in opposition or even to say they cannot sometimes overlap, here is why I think distinguishing the two might help people who are still exploring their gender and sexuality. It was turned into a pejorative to describe those with non-heterosexual desires and behaviors about a century ago. I understand that. Queer theorists, influenced in part by the work of French philosopher Michel Foucault , usually deal with sexuality not removed from gender but simultaneously, and questioned them both.
Many push back against the essentialist idea that sex and gender are different and question the limitations inherent in a binary gendered perspective. What is gender? What is sexuality? Can we ever truly know? As a Black person in America, my experience with gender and sexuality is going to be vastly different than a similarly situated white person.
I find myself in non-white, non-male, and non-cisgender affirming gay spaces often, and they are lovely. But queer spaces also provide me with something that is vitally different.
It is specifically supposed to embrace the vastness of difference, which would ostensibly include more than white, cisgender men. But white supremacist cisheterosexism is invasive, and is nearly impossible to escape in the world we live in today. Those who became the prominent leaders in the movement to reclaim queerness were still predominantly white as well. They are, however — or should be — exploring what it means to be more than just white if truly operating with a queer framework.
Many people of color, gender non-conforming people, or non-binary folks reject labels altogether. The label fight is just not for them.
Based on my understanding of queerness, I interpret even that rejection a queer action, regardless of how one is identified, and it too has great importance. That is queerness, after all. I am unashamed of sex. I have it frequently, and I love it. But my queerness is not limited to the question of sexuality.